Children engage more readily when interactions feel safe, playful and meaningful. Eye contact can be encouraged naturally through connection rather than pressure.
Playful ideas to try
Bubbles
Blow bubbles, pause before the next round and wait for a brief look before continuing.
Peekaboo
This simple game builds anticipation and naturally draws attention toward the face.
Tickle-and-pause games
During playful tickles, pause and wait. The moment of expectation may encourage the child to seek your gaze.
Stickers near your face
Fun stickers can make looking toward the face more interesting.
Use their name
Call the child’s name during enjoyable activities so your voice becomes linked with turning toward you.
Small, consistent and joyful interactions can make a meaningful difference.
A note on individual differences
Some children find direct eye contact uncomfortable or overwhelming. The wider goal is shared attention and communication, not forcing a child to look in a particular way.
Frequently asked questions
Should I hold my child’s face toward me?
No. Forced eye contact can increase discomfort. Use engaging activities and accept brief, natural moments of connection.
When should I seek advice?
Seek professional guidance if concerns about eye contact occur alongside communication, social interaction or developmental difficulties.
This educational information does not replace an individual assessment or medical advice. If you are concerned, seek guidance from a suitably qualified professional.