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Child psychology & parenting

How Therapy Works for Children and Adolescents

A clear guide to how child and adolescent therapy uses play, conversation and family involvement to support emotional development.

Content prepared by Gisele Cottica, Psychologist

Many people imagine that therapy for children is simply “playing” and therapy for teenagers is simply “talking”. In practice, both are carefully guided processes that help young people understand emotions, behaviour and everyday challenges.

In childhood, play is the main language

Children do not always have the words to explain what they feel. Through games, drawings, stories and imaginative play, they can express experiences that may otherwise be difficult to communicate. The psychologist observes, listens and gently guides the process, supporting emotional, social and behavioural development.

In adolescence, therapy becomes a space for reflection

Teenagers can use therapy to explore doubts, conflict, self-esteem, friendships, family relationships, school pressures and hopes for the future. The aim is to provide a private, non-judgemental space where they can develop self-awareness, autonomy and healthier ways of coping.

Families are part of the process

Parents and caregivers often receive guidance throughout therapy. The exact level of family involvement depends on the young person’s age, needs and circumstances, while appropriate confidentiality is respected.

Therapy is not only for moments of crisis.

It can also help children and adolescents build emotional skills, confidence and resilience for life.

Frequently asked questions

Will my child be forced to talk?

No. The therapist works at the child’s pace and uses developmentally appropriate ways of communicating, including play, drawing and activities.

Do parents attend every session?

Not necessarily. Parents may be involved at the beginning, in review meetings or where guidance is helpful. The arrangement is tailored to the child and family.

How will I know whether therapy is helping?

Goals and progress can be reviewed over time through observation, discussion with caregivers and changes in the child’s emotional or everyday functioning.

This educational information does not replace an individual assessment or medical advice. If you are concerned, seek guidance from a suitably qualified professional.

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